Upscale Singles Mixers
Curated, in-person social experiences for singles who value real conversation and genuine connection. Hosted in select venues across Long Island, New York City, Westchester, and Connecticut.
Relaxed conversation, real connections, and absolutely no apps required.
Real People. Real Connections.
Tired of the digital fatigue? We believe the best way to see if there's a spark is to meet face-to-face in a comfortable, pressure-free environment.
We host upscale singles mixers for people who want something more intentional than dating apps and more refined than crowded scenes. Our events focus on relaxed conversation, thoughtful venues, and the kind of connections that happen naturally in person.
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Curated Crowds
Events structured by age and interest to ensure you meet peers in your life stage, in a thoughtfully curated setting.
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Hosted Experiences
Our friendly hosts are always present to facilitate introductions and ensure a welcoming vibe.
What Makes It Elevated
Premium Venues
We partner with the best lounges, wine bars, and rooftops. The atmosphere is always sophisticated yet inviting. Each event includes a venue experience credit, redeemable for use at the venue the night of the event.
Second Chance Connections
If you meet someone you would like to connect with, email us within 24 hours after the event and let us know who you would like us to reach out to. With your permission, we will pass along your contact information. It is always the other person's choice whether to respond. Privacy first, no pressure.
Natural Conversation
No rigid structures. Just free-flowing conversation with optional ice-breakers to help things along.
Intentional Singles
Everyone is there for the same reason: to make a genuine connection. Leave the games behind.
Who It's For
Professionals
Career-focused individuals, including college-educated singles and entrepreneurs, who value their time and prefer curated experiences over endless swiping.
Authentic People
Those tired of curated online personas and ready for real, unfiltered interaction.
Social Butterflies
People who enjoy the energy of a room and the spontaneity of meeting someone new in person.
Optimists
Singles who believe the best connections happen when you least expect them, in the right setting.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the vibe like?
Relaxed, upscale, and friendly. Think "cocktail party with friends you haven't met yet."
What is the dress code?
We recommend "date night" attire. Look your best as first impressions count!
What ages attend?
We host specific events for different age ranges (e.g., 20s & 30s, 40s & 50s) to ensure you meet peers in your life stage.
Do I have to register online?
Yes, advance registration is required to ensure we have an even gender balance at our events.
Is my information private?
Yes. Your information is never shared publicly. We only pass along your contact details if you specifically request it after an event through our Second Chance Connections process. The other person always chooses whether to respond.
Can I come alone?
Most people do! Our hosts are there to welcome you and introduce you to others, so you'll never feel awkward.
Will the event be gender balanced?
We are very mindful of gender balance and actively manage registrations to keep it within reason. While we can’t guarantee an exact ratio (life happens!), we closely monitor sign-ups and make adjustments when needed - something many similar events simply don't do. Our goal is always to create a comfortable, fair, and enjoyable experience for everyone in the room.
Ready to meet someone real?
Real connections don't happen on apps. They happen in person.
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